"Life costs. The values and kitsch and superficiality of it take their toll on all of us. No one walks through life unscathed."
It is a task of a lifetime....
"Life costs. The values and kitsch and superficiality of it take their toll on all of us. No one walks through life unscathed."
It is a task of a lifetime....
Sister Joan Chittister quotes Dietrich Bonhoffer, who writes "there is a meaning in every journey that is unknown to the traveler". Sister Joan discusses this aspect of chapter 61 of the rule The Reception of Visiting Monastic.
Benedict realized that visitors are not only welcomed fed and taken care of, but they give each of us the opportunity to learn from the traveler—to learn from their experiences. Joan refers to this as a kind of radical acceptance—wisdom welcomed from any direction.
And so we are call to learn and teach at every moment in our lives-never to close ourselves off in every moment of every day.
Benedictine spirituality never requires perfection. It does, however, demand effort and openness.
I do not see you as much as I feel you– know you, the way I know my bones hold me upright as I walk, or the pressure of bare feet on cool grass. You, Root Mother, draw my eyes downward to the earth, where the heart of life beats, the deep throb beneath all the distractions we call life. Root Mother, yes, that is the best name I can give you, although your true name sounds more like water over stone or the creak of growing corn. Some truths are hidden, tucked away in the holy darkness, far from my dissecting mind, yet I know they are there, safe in your hands. Who says I must understand something fully in order to celebrate it– even to be held by it? You call me back to the center of my own being, a space much lower than any lofty thoughts of my mind, where you wait with divine patience. I will never begin to know the truth of my own body until I rest in the rich darkness of yours, and for this grace I thank you. ~Stuart Higginbotham |
Benedictine spirituality seeks to free the body so that the soul can soar. A gift long lost in a consumer society.
Even life in hot fields and drab offices and small houses is somehow one long happy thought when God is its center, and blessings, however rare, however scant, are blessed.
We simply must learn to surrender into His hands--making Him the center of our lives!
At the break of dawn, every day of the week, Benedict, through his organization of the morning, psalms, reminds the monastic of two unfailing realities.
Life is hard and we will struggle; and, having survived the week, saved one more time God. We are under the shelter of his wings.
Each of us should have two pockets, the rabbi teaches. In one should be the message, "I am dust and ashes." And in the other, we should have written, "For me the universe was made."
God, by His Grace, will prevail
and in doing so will enable us to prevail.
If you follow the daily office closely, you will find that there is an element of freshness every day. The prayers and patterns are concentrated and contemplative. Benedict encourages us to listen as well as recite.
Pay particular attention to the Sabbath as a moment of returning to the surety and solemnity of life, for setting our sights above the daily, for restating the basics, giving meaning to the rest of the week. Yes, reinforced through repetition.
Fill your bowl to the brim and it will spill. Keep sharpening your knife and it will blunt. Chase after money and security and your heart will never unclinch. Care about people's approval and you will be their prisoner.Do your work, then step back.
The only path to security.
The movement to prey is the movement of God in our souls. Our ability to pray depends on the power and the place of God in our life--we pray because God attracts us, and we pray only because God is attracting us. We are not, in other words, even the author of our own prayer life. It is the goodness of God, not any virtue that we have developed on our own, that brings us to the heart of God.
Sister Joan challenges us with this notion. Many of us would like to believe that we have such great insight into the world, into the universe, that we can author our own prayers. But if we look closely at the words that we choose, at the elements of our life that draw our attention, at the goodness that we seek to accomplish, we suddenly realize that these are not our works alone.
I believe he is the author of these actions; the author of these prayers. He authors these so that we might see what he desires for us, and in time, I believe we act with Him motivated by his love for us and His love for the world in which we live.
Many of these prayers come from deep within us, that is true. But so He resides deep within us. He is the very heart of our soul, the soul of our lives. Once we embrace this, once we accepted this, then I think the conversation begins. Prayer life, grounded in faith, conversation with him growing daily.
Among the sayings of the Desert fathers, there is a story that may explain Benedict's terse and clear instructions on prayer:
One of the disciples asked Abba Agathon, "among all good works, which is the virtue that requires the greatest effort?" Abba Agathon answered, "I think there is no labor greater than that of prayer to God. For every time we want to pray, our enemies, the demons, want to prevent us, for they know that it is only by turning us from prayer that they can hinder our journey."
The 12th step of humility is that we always manifest humility in our bearing, no less than in our hearts, so that it is evident at the Opus Dei, in the oratory, the monastery or the garden, or on a journey, or in the field, or anywhere else.
To be truly humble is to simply measure ourselves without exaggeration. Humility is the ability to know ourselves as God knows us and to know that it is the little we are that is precisely our claim on God.Humility is, then, the formation of our relationship with God, our connectedness to others, our acceptance of others, our way of using the goods of the Earth, and is our way of walking through the world, without arrogance, without domination, without scorn, without put-downs, without distain, without self-centeredness. The more we know ourselves, the gentler we will be with others.
Go in peace to love and serve the Lord.
....tread tenderly upon the life around us....
If we truly know our place in this world, we can easily afford to make room for others. We do not need to dominate conversations and insist on our own way--there is room in life for all of us.
God can be God for all of us because we have relieved ourselves of the ordeal of being God ourselves. We simply unfold and become.
Do not be confused. Benedict is not asking us to be such stoic that we never smile or laugh. He wants us to recognize that life is serious and that we are called to honor our ourselves and the world in which we live. He wants us to be in control of ourselves at all times, never threatening others.
A humble person handles the presence of the other with soft hands, a velvet heart, and an unveiled mind – even your enemies.
When arrogance irrupt anywhere, it erupt invariably in speech. Our opinions become the rule. Our ideals become the goal. Our judgments become the norm. Our word becomes the last word, the only word.
Aware of our own meager virtues, conscious of our own massive failures, despite all our great efforts, all our fine desires, we have in this degree of humility, this acceptance of our ourselves, the chance to understand the failure of others. We have here the opportunity to be kind.
We must first reveal to ourselves who we really are. We cannot grow until we do.
...difficult, unfavorable, or even unjust conditions, where our hearts must quietly embrace suffering, and endure it without weakening or seeking escape.
On first reading, this may seem so foreign, so unrealistic – that we must even remotely consider accepting such conditions. But in time, we will realize one of the most important lessons of life – it really isn't all about us.
We frequently cling to our own ways, refusing to confront and accept the reality of life. But there are a great many essential and positive lessons to be learned from these trials. They are not to be ignored.
Sister Joan reminds us that in this degree of humility, we must hold on when things do not go our way, for we must learn to...
...withstanding the storms of life rather than having to flail and flail agaist the wind and, as a result, lose the opportunity to control ourselves when there is nothing else in life we can control.
Yes, yes, I understand. This is so easy to say. But we must persist! We must persevere! We must endure! We must learn to live this life for Him! It really is not all about us.
...we shall imitate by our actions that saying of Christ's: "I have come not to do my own will, but he will of the One who sent me"
"how do we tell the world of God from our own? How do we know when to resist the tide and confront the opposition and when to embrace the pain and except the bitterness because "God will it for us."
I believe the answer lies and our willingness, and our ability to listen quietly for his voice. For his will.
It will come to us as a gentle nudge or maybe even a shove. If we're willing to listen.
...if the preservation of the globe in the 21st century requires anything of the past at all, it may well be the commitment of the rule of Benedict to humility.
... a proper sense of self in a universe of wonders. When we make ourselves, God, no one in the world is safe in our presence. Humility… is the basis for right relationships in the life.
"How does a person seek union with God? the seeker asks.
"The harder you seek," the teacher said, "the more distant you create between God and you."
"So what does one do about the distance? "
"Understand that it isn't there, "the teacher said.
"Does that mean that God and I are one? "The seeker said.
"Not one. No two."
"How is that possible? "The seeker asked.
"The sun and its light, the ocean and the wave, the singer and the song. Not one. Not two. "
You must give yourself to it wholeheartedly. You must enter into it with Hope and surety. You must not kick and kick against the goad. (A goad is a pointed stick to prod animals.)
This, Benedict says, is not obedience. This is only compliance, and compliance kills, both us, and the community, whose heart is fractured by those who hold theirs back. Real obedience depends on wanting to listen to the voice of God in the human community, not wanting to be forced to do what we refuse to grow from.
The Tools for Good Works
Sunday, January 18, 2026Chapter 4First of all, "love God with your whole heart, your whole soul and all your strength, and love your neighbor as yourself (Mt 22:37-39; Mk 12:30-31; Lk 10:27)."
for "that most valiant kind of monastic heart," who sets out to find the holy in the human. The call to contemplation to not simply to see Christ in the other but to treat the other as Christ. Benedict calls us first to justice: love God, love the other, do no harm to anyone.
...to be engaged in the great Christian enterprise of acting for others in the place of God.
This is our call.
Benedictines are called to birth souls of steel and light; they are called to live the life they lead; their call to live in discriminately; their call to favor the good, not to favor the favorites; they are to call the community to the height and depth and breath of the spiritual life; they are to remember and rejoice in their own weaknesses in order to deal tenderly with the weaknesses of others; they are to attend more to the spiritual than to the physical aspects of community life; and finally, they are to save their own souls in the process, to be human beings themselves, to grow in life themselves.
We are called to struggle in life with those around
us--to grow in depth, in sincerity, and in holiness,
to grow despite weaknesses, to grow beyond our
weaknesses.
Benedict focuses again today on the importance of the prior and prioress leading a life which they seek to enshrine in others. Sister Joan brings it to life for us today.
Blessed, because we still carry extraordinary freedom, creativity, resources, and the ability to speak, gather, and worship. These are gifts entrusted to us, not earned by us.
Broken, because division, anger, suspicion, and greed have crept into our common life. Many see neighbors not as fellow children of God, but as enemies. Our politics often reward outrage more than compassion. We live in an age of abundance, yet millions go hungry or are crushed under debt. The Creator must surely weep that after so many years, we still struggle with racism, violence, and indifference.
The eyes of the painting—serious, compassionate, longing—ask us whether we have grown closer to the dream Rockwell imagined, or drifted further.
Can we be humble enough to ask for help?
Humility is the only path back. We must admit:
We cannot fix this by clever policies alone.
We cannot heal by shouting louder than the other side.
We cannot find peace until we are willing to kneel—each in our own way of prayer, silence, or surrender—and confess that we have fallen short.
Humility is not weakness. It is the courage to say:
...hold fast to our humanity, to make it our priority and never to let what we have obscure what we are.
Benedict knew what most of us learn sooner or later: it is hard to let go of the past, and yet, until we do, there is no hope whatsoever that we can ever gain from the future.
"In India," Ram Dass writes, "when people meet and part they often say, 'Namaste,' which means: I honor the place in you where the entire universe resides; I honor the place in you of love, of light, of truth, of peace. I honor the place within you where if you are in that place in you and I am in that place in me, there is only one of us....'Namaste'."
It is an important distinction in a culture in which strangers are ignored and self-sufficiency is considered a sign of virtue and poverty is a synonym for failure.
To practice hospitality in our world, it may be necessary to evaluate all the laws and all the promotions and all the invitation lists of corporate and political society from the point of view of the people who never make the lists. Then hospitality may demand that we work to change things.